Well now you know the answer. I wouldn't say never, but I am also not going to sit here and put my sole hope in this happening one day. I want to be able to move forward but I think thats what hurts the most. What next?....More testing? Meds? ADOPTION? Foster Care? Older kid? Baby? International? Where will the money come from????I DONT KNOW? But I do know that I can't give up. I can't just sit here and wait another year to go by but God seems to have me waiting. This is the longest thing I have ever had to wait on....to grow our family. I want that for our family especially for Zyan. Then I think of my sweet boy and how crazy his story is and wish it could be as quick but that isn't how God is working this time. I want to believe with my whole heart that he can do the same thing again with out having to start all the medicines and appointments and doctors. I want to believe that God can do what he wants to do wither from me or through adoption to grow the Charles Clan.
Everyone seems to have their theory of how they got pregnant and it might have worked for you but do you know how many people have given me advice and options I should look into? At least 20+ different ways.Its exhausting to me. Try this or Try that or you should totally do this it works. Whatever God has for our family I hope to be able to write it into another chapter of this so called not so normal life that Andy and I live in. I know many have gone down this path and its a touchy subject but I believe in prayer and asking for it. So would you just pray for our family and not just that we would be able to conceive because for me its more than that. I just want to do what the Lord is calling us to do and adoption is a big part of that but more for the WHAT next for our family. How can I use this for God's glory and not my own because people my life is not my own as much and as many times as I make it out to be. My life is far better than I imagined it to be but with that has come A LOT of tears and hashing outs because I have to LET GO of A LOT of my expectations for my family....and this is one of them.
When I heard this song by All Sons and Daughters I thought HOLY CRAP this is exactly my feelings towards my life now....
When the pieces seem to shatter
To gather off the floor
And all that seems to matter
Is that I don't feel you anymore
No I don't feel you anymore
I need a reason to sing
I need to know that You're still holding
The whole world in Your hands
I need a reason to sing
When I'm overcome by fear
And I hate everything I know
If this waiting lasts forever
I'm afraid I might let go
Will there be a victory
Will You sing it over me now
I need to know that You're still holding
The whole world in Your hands
That is a reason to sing
No I don't feel you anymore
I need a reason to sing
I need to know that You're still holding
The whole world in Your hands
I need a reason to sing
When I'm overcome by fear
And I hate everything I know
If this waiting lasts forever
I'm afraid I might let go
Will there be a victory
Will You sing it over me now
I need to know that You're still holding
The whole world in Your hands
That is a reason to sing